#174 — October, 2026

If you want others to be happy, practice compassion.
If you want to be happy, practice compassion.

— The Dalai Lama

Greetings, Inspired Seekers:

Every now and then, people surprise you in a good way.

We just returned from a late-summer-early-fall vacation to the magical coast of Maine. What a magnificent piece of creation! Jagged rocks, beautiful ocean sides, a spectacular National Park and … the people! Yes, the people.

Each stop we made, each gorgeous setting that housed us for a brief time, became a community. Friendly faces, helpful hands, generous suggestions were offered in every encounter. We were in the state of The Divine – right here on the planet.

Some folks were native to the area. Some were pilgrims, as we were, traveling on unknown paths in explored territories. No matter – everyone found a brief and grace-full community if only for a little spot in time.

We chatted across tables in restaurants, took photos for each other at the seashore and in the mountains, listened to musicians and shared the delight of a concert where nature was the performance space. Life as it was meant to be, not because of opulence or excess, because of connection. Because strangers were willing to welcome each other, because, in the moment, we were willing to simply and honestly be ourselves and enjoy new introductions.

As a Chaplain, my role is to meet people where they are. To listen. To respond with compassionate honesty. No judgement, no fear. This vacation reminded me that expansion is possible! We can all benefit from this approach to life. Walk in. Acknowledge that which is before you. Respond with kindness. Meet the person, then the need or the offering.

We can form communities of compassion each day. Why wait until you are on vacation?

Grace and Kindness,
Reverend Deborah

Question of the Month: What will you commit to doing to create a community of compassion?


The Reverend Dr. Deborah Darlington offers compassionate care and sacred celebrations to people of all traditions and beliefs. She can be reached at GraceMatters@TheSpaceForGrace.com or at 215 260 1611

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