Greetings, Inspired Seekers!

Living in the in-between time is not easy. It is mid-winter and, this year, this space is downright difficult. And yet, here we are, sipping cocoa – or something stronger – and trying to be patient. In between “everything all at once.” The world is at odds with itself, few things seem stable and, of course, it's February – the month of chocolate and love! Geeze! How's everyone doing?

It seems as if we are on a spiritual high wire in a circus with no comic relief; we swing between knowing and unknowing and, with each step, we face a crash landing. Theology, at times such as these, is often not helpful. And yet, theologically, we have always had to balance light with dark, words with ideas and oratory with silence. And in times when we are balanced in this space, we move into a deeper sense of faith and a higher level of consciousness. The irony does not go unnoticed.

The space between knowing and unknowing can be the most unnerving and uncomfortable. Yet, it seems to be the center point of mysticism. Certainty and uncertainty, comfort and discomfort have been the resting place of mystics from all traditions. So, why should they have all the fun? If they can find a resting place here, we might give it a try.

Our spiritual lives require the Light that illuminates as well as the dark nights of the soul, where we grow from this discomfort. We require the direct teachings and the indirect suggestions, the sound and the silence; alone, none are enough. The value is in their balance.

We must examine both sides, we must experience both sides, and we must test both sides. Clarity is a gift and so is the confidence provided by spiritual soundness that comes from deep examination. At the end of the day, we might not have answers but we might not need them – not yet. This work is a slow process.

So, get comfortable, or not, but know in your soul that we share this in-between time with others in our spiritual history. We will move forward, as did they. And, remember, it's February, so have some chocolate and share some love right where you are! There's plenty of space on the high wire!

Grace and Kindness,
Reverend Deborah

Question of the Month: Can you be comfortable with discomfort?

The Reverend Dr. Deborah Darlington is a seminary trained, ordained Interfaith Minister who supports all peoples through questioning times. She can be reached at GraceMatters@TheSpaceForGrace.com or at 215 260 1611 for Spiritual Coaching, Rites of Passage and Inspirational Speaking.